(1)证明:∵E为AD中点,
∴AE=DE,
∵AF∥BC,
∴∠AFE=∠DCE,
在△AEF和△CED中,
,
∠AFE=∠DCE ∠AEF=∠DEC AE=DE
∴△AEF≌△CED(AAS),
∴AF=DC,
∵AD是△ABC的中线,
∴BD=DC,
∴AF=BD,
即AF∥BD,AF=BD,
故四边形AFBD是平行四边形.
(2)当∠BAC=90°时,四边形AFBD是菱形,
证明:∵∠BAC=90°,D为BC中点,
∴AD=BD,
∵四边形AFBD是平行四边形,
∴四边形AFBD是菱形.