解:
设AC和BD交于O,
∵AB//CD,AD=BD,
∴四边形ABCD是等腰梯形,
∴AC=BD,
∵AC⊥BD,
∴△AOB和△COD均为等腰直角三角形,
∴OA=OB=√2/2AB=3√2/2.
OC=OD=√2/2CD=5√2/2,
则AC=BD=3√2/2+5√2/2=4√2,
S梯形ABCD=S△ABD+S△CBD
=1/2BD×OA+1/2BD×OC
=1/2BD×AC
=1/2×4√2×4√2
=16(平方厘米)